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definitely a slut, maybe a lesbian

123 [+ / -]     Mar 26, 2008

  • Girl 1: Gary was only with one girl before me, isn't that sad?
  • Girl 2: Yeah, it kind of is.
  • Girl 1: I mean, I've been with like 12, I think.

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03/26/2008, 4:06 PM

me said...
this actually makes me angry. "definitely a slut, maybe a lesbian?" first of all, where does the "lesbian" part come in? second, it's pretty unenlightened and judgmental to give a number of sexual partners above which constitutes a slut. ugh. very disappointed.

04/30/2009, 12:41 PM

Christian Fellowship said...
I know exactly what you mean. We should give this tramp some respect. Just because someone acts like total whore who is also probably a big ol' lezbo doesn't mean we need to go placing value judgements on this total slut.

03/26/2008, 4:38 PM

capt. obvi said...
someone missed the joke!

03/26/2008, 5:33 PM

me said...
you're right, i had missed the joke. i get it now, but the "definitely a slut" is the f-ed up part anyway...

03/26/2008, 9:48 PM

... said...
...Sounds to me like someone else is also a slut...

02/16/2009, 6:12 PM

Sore said...
Sounds like someone is a misogynistic asshole.....

03/27/2008, 12:33 PM

anonymous said...
I agree with above.

03/29/2008, 10:22 AM

anonymous said...
how could you not be a slut after being with 12 people? Are you kidding me...

12/15/2008, 06:27 AM

tp said...
yep SLUT

04/01/2008, 7:33 PM

anon said...
I agree w/ above, Since the girl describes her number as being "like 12" it shows:
1. she is not exactly sure her # is 12 (I guess all the guys blur together when they're running a train on yo ass?!)
2. She thinks her # is low if she's bagging on the guy for having none
3. Everyone know girls divide their #'s by 3
That means this hoe is a HOE and obviously so is "me"

04/02/2008, 09:35 AM

M said...
I think you little boys are just afraid of women who are experienced because they can tell just how incompetent you are in bed. Open your minds you conservative, beer- bellied, bible-thumping, sad, sad little boys.

04/13/2008, 11:12 AM

anonymous said...
reallly???? shut the fuck up you asshole

05/05/2008, 12:52 PM

Jay said...
I'm less scared of "women who are experienced" than I am of women with epic cases of the clap.

See you at General Bouregard's, you walking petri dish.

05/11/2008, 11:17 PM

Mert said...
hmmm...simply because they're uncomfortable with the possiblity of std's and they're from the south makes them bible thumping? Who's doing the closed-minded stereotyping now?

04/23/2009, 6:02 PM

woah said...
What's exactly the problem with not having 12 hookups? That's my question M. You're hating on people for calling the girl a slut (which unfortunately girls like her give all us UGA girls a stereotype, preesh!).
And let's do the math: assuming Bolton means she was a freshman, that means she's 19! with "like 12"! even give or take that's sad.

04/30/2009, 12:42 PM

Christian Fellowship said...
You want to fuck boys?

04/02/2008, 09:54 AM

anon said...
Actually I'm a girl and a hot one but one with enough self-respect and self-esteem to know I don't need to be a whore to attract boys and no daddy issues that make me need to find validation that way (also if you can't tell by the insight a psych major). So please M get help and start to like yourself before you infect the world w/ your std of the week

08/14/2008, 11:33 AM

Jay said...
"and a hot one" wow ... how stuck up are you.. that's all I needed to read.

09/19/2008, 6:48 PM

Nick said...
Honestly you gotta say what you gotta say. I'm not saying she is, but it does make a somewhat valid point either way.

04/02/2008, 10:25 AM

M said...
Ooooo. An undergraduate psych major. That's impressive. That makes you an expert right. A bona fide shrink for sure. I like sex. I'm human. I have safe sex. It's ok. no matter what your twisted southern values tell you. Maybe we should listen to the professional psychologists and not "psych majors" which means nothing, or the highest conservative authority "preachers". Sex oooo.sex ooooo. Heaven forbid we be human.

06/25/2008, 11:23 PM

anon48 said...
You try to make everyone else seem stupid for their use of sweeping generalization by use of sweeping generalization. Pot that called the kettle black, much?

04/19/2009, 03:29 AM

BBB said...
M you are a fucking idiot. And I have a question fucking slutty ass yankee. If you hate southerners so much WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU GOING TO THE UNIVERSITY OF GEORGIA?!? There's no way to see around it you are a slut and are comfortable with it :) have fun in hell. And even safe sex has it's faults. What if the condom breaks? Your and idiot if you think your 100% safe. Go get an STD and die.

04/02/2008, 12:55 PM

anon said...
Just try to find a psychologist who will tell you that sexually deviant behavior (what promiscuity is considered) is NOT caused by deep-seated psychological issues, good luck.

But I don't need 3 & 1/2 years of psych to tell you why I think a hoe is a hoe.

So far all your characterizations are wrong: I'm not male, nor conservative, nor even really religious and I have no moral conundrums about premarital sex( and yes I actually like sex too)... So please quit trying to write off my opinion with false labels. I just happen to also respect my body and think it is far too amazing to just share with ANYone who'll have me.

P.S While your empowerment rhetoric is quite cute, that is really not the issue at hand is it? I sincerely doubt that since the girl can't actually remember the # of her lays they probably wouldn't leave her feeling too empowered. But big Congrats on using safe-sex, we really don't need any more teen pregnancy now do we?

10/26/2008, 4:38 PM

anonymous said...
I'm not an undergrad psych major, but I do know that pretty much every single experiment or survey proves that a very wide range of sexual behavior is common and normal. It's extremely hard to define sexually deviant behavior. From the studies I've read, the line is probably on this side of bestiality, but probably on the other side of promiscuity (btw, promiscuity does not equal addiction).

Maybe I should've gone back to get my psych degree. Any psych program that would let you even halfway through without correcting that sort of mentality is obviously incredibly easy.

Your opinion about your body is all fine and good. Do whatever makes you happy... If you only ever slept with one person in your whole life, you probably wouldn't be considered sexually deviant... but you should really stop thinking that anyone who doesn't adhere to the same ideas that you do about their own body IS sexually deviant.

02/16/2009, 5:52 PM

Sore said...
Wow, you are a psychology major? Really? This school should not be giving your dumbass a degree.

Most psychologists do not give a damn how many people you sleep with provided your sleeping with people isn't bothering you or fucking with your life.

They are less likely to call a person who sleeps with a lot of people deviant than our society. As a psychology major, you should know that.

Psychologists are CAREFUL not to label everything that is deemed "bad" by our society as deviant because our society CHANGES all of the time and it also has pretty fucked up ideas about human sexuality. (This may shock you, but our fucked up ideas about sexuality come from our Christian history. Whether you are Christian or not doesn't matter. It still affects your beliefs about sexuality.)

We label everything that we don't agree with or personally like as deviant and pretend that we're all psychologists because we've watched a few Dr. Phil shows.

People who sleep with many other people do not necessarily have deep seated issues. Come on, man.

Calling a woman a "hoe" contributes to our society's misogynism. Great job. I'm sure there are people who will call your simple ass a hoe because you're a woman and you sleep with someone before you're married. Grow up and quit judging people.

I am ASEXUAL. I have never had sex with anyone and I might not ever. Does that make me better than you? Does that make you a hoe? No.

Quit worrying about other people and do your own thing. I thought calling women hoes and sluts was a high school thing but I guess it isn't.

And I wonder why women are called hoes and men aren't. Isn't that odd? I'm sure if the person who said that they slept around with 12 women was a man he'd be getting virtual high fives.

02/25/2009, 10:42 AM

anonymous said...
thank you for this

04/03/2009, 10:18 PM

Geezy said...
Maybe you have had too many psyc classes and not enough hort classes.

There is a big difference between a hoe and a ho. One is a garden implement and the other is short for Whore.

04/18/2009, 8:53 PM

blahblah said...
Thank you, Geezy. finally, someone else who knows that a hoe is a gardening tool...

...and that ho is short for whore.

04/02/2008, 12:55 PM

me said...
Wow, it is pretty upsetting how nasty people can be when they are anonymous. No, I am not a "slut" at all, but I think it's awful to use that word at all to describe women who have had any number of sexual partners. A guy gets a slap on the back for that, a girl gets a denigrating name. And I get called a slut saying I think it's wrong? Athens is a great place. I shouldn't have said anything.

02/16/2009, 5:56 PM

Sore said...
People in our society are stupid as hell and have issues with women's sexuality because of our woman-hating history. Nobody questions why they have a problem with women sleeping around but don't have a problem with men sleeping around. Don't let it bother you. Just keep doing your thing. I agree that the "slut" word is incredibly childish and we need to stomp it out.

04/02/2008, 5:22 PM

SK said...
Yeah, it sucks to have an opinion on the internet where ANYONE can post anything they want and get away with it.

But arguing on the internet is like the special olympics...no matter who wins, they're still retarded!

04/13/2008, 11:14 AM

anonymous said...
you do realize you just called yourself retarded right?

06/26/2008, 7:51 PM

SK said...
And you too! Yay!

04/02/2008, 5:49 PM

9 said...
Anon tries to act all smart and shit but about halfway through her post she uses a split infinitive. What a buffoon!

06/25/2008, 11:25 PM

anon48 said...
Grammar nazi much? overheardinathens, not Encyclopaedia Brittanica.

04/02/2008, 6:51 PM

Luke said...
Is a split infinitive like open legs?

04/02/2008, 9:48 PM

Laura J said...
Come on 9 did you really just use the word the buffoon to cut someone down? That has to be a bigger faux pas than a split infinitive.

04/02/2008, 10:55 PM

FA said...
9, split infinitives are prescriptive grammar. It was jacked from Latin, where it is impossible to split an infinitive and native English speakers split them all the time. In fact, I dare you to go a day without splitting an infinitive. It tends to sound very stuffy and awkward to native speakers. On that note, stfu and gtfo, plzkthx bai.

As for the quote, I'd call a girl who slept with 12 guys a whore and a guy who slept with 12 girls a man whore. I understand liking sex and wanting to be experienced, but I'm with anon in thinking it's a special thing that shouldn't be just given away. You have two hands for more than one reason after all.

Besides, "like 12?" I wouldn't touch that with a 39 and a half foot pole.

04/03/2008, 12:10 AM

anonymous said...
I really don't think this quote deserves all of this attention.

04/13/2008, 11:16 AM

anonymous said...
thank youuuuuu

04/03/2008, 9:04 PM

so... said...
when did religion get thrown in to the mix? I'm going to school to be a preacher, but I didn't comment, but you still comment about us "bible-thumpers" who, by the way, prefer whiskey.

04/04/2008, 12:59 AM

... said...
...Get em anon, let them hoes know what's up...

04/04/2008, 8:46 PM

Psych-hoes said...
pscyh major = psycho trying to deal with their own issues and thinks they can do so by analyzing everyone else's issues. if you meet a girl, cute, nice, and everything's going great, and she tells you that she's a psych major, run. very, very fast, and very, very far.

04/05/2008, 09:49 AM

anonymous said...
I like sluts. They're quite useful.

04/06/2008, 3:32 PM

Quoted said...
You all are quite silly. This is OVERHEARD for Christ's sake! If you get bent out of shape from what's on here, then maybee you shouldn't come here and support this site. Then to have a flame war over grammar... Wow. It almost makes me feel bad commenting, but damn.

04/07/2008, 07:44 AM

anonymous said...
I have a friend who's a psych major. They don't wanna shrink heads, rather work in occupational therapy...something to think about

04/08/2008, 1:07 PM

RP said...
Men may get pats on the back for having a lot of partners...but they're still sluts.

Think of it this way: since men like to brag about sleeping around that makes it easy to find out if the guy is a slut, right?

04/10/2008, 7:13 PM

b to the izzo said...
saying twelve partners is a lot just shows your age sweetheart. It's a lot at 19.

04/11/2008, 01:19 AM

billy ocean said...
Having 12 partners at 18-22 moves you right past slut and into knob-gobblin', cum-dumpster status

04/11/2008, 06:52 AM

pricks a plenty said...
anyone, male or female, who thinks they can judge someone based solely on their number is a sanctimonious retard.

04/14/2008, 2:51 PM

dirty rotten feminisit said...
thank you.

04/19/2008, 11:03 AM

anob said...
Any so-called feminist should want women to respect themselves and act in a way that shows they have some self-worth. And the girl in the quote wasn't just judged for her # but the flippant way she referred to her # and the way she judged some guy who hadnt had any partners. So really wasn't she the one being a a "sanctimonious retard"?

02/16/2009, 6:01 PM

Sore said...
Your idea of "self-respect" is different from other people's. Did you know that some people think that self-respect is about waiting to have sex until you get married? Or only have sex for the purpose of procreation?

As a feminist, I think women should have the choic